We again tried to talk things over.

. It means there are a lot of women out there looking for a “lack of red flags” rather than a REAL connection or real reason to fall in love. You are way better off. Be kind to your body and mind, don’t rack your brain trying to make excuses for a man. When I first found out that he was ignoring me I texted him a bunch of stuff and basically called him an asshole. Then here we are at the ninth month mark. Please don´t scream and shout I know many men that constantly try to improve themselves to find an amazing woman. So, I am making the effort to work on myself, mentally I feel great. Don’t think so.

And the next day after that he texted me, he didn’t say that it was over, but instead he said that I deserved someone better.

Im confused. She is not a bad person but sadly she is not normal due to her borderline personality disorder. I know I have hurt the ladies in I was involved with; but give my own unique background, it was all for their own good that I decided to run away.

Smith, I just had to respond to your comment!!! Good riddance Mr Copperfield! Well, it’s time I stop playing myself for a fool for this guy. But then after a month he just started “fading away”. He told me week 1 how he was falling for me. Well all of a sudden he just nonlonger reaponda to text a or phone calls and ignores me for days until I show up at his house. No, I call that being inconsiderate! I have done that as well- but if i MAKE plans for a second date i will never cancel last minute- just a rule i have for myself. After a week I felt that may be I should initiate a contact and wont mention about our differences. Thanks.

(He lives a couple of hours away and works nights and weekends.) Then one night he revealed his true self and I realised he had just be playing or ‘messing’ with me when he had gone over board at the beginning. Especially when everything is going great. I told him that I talk to him ALL the time, but tonight he’s had a LOT to drink. The guy I’ve been seeing told me he could see us being happily married and that he hoped that our kids had my eye colour. He said this would be the evening we would either discuss whether it was a make or break .

He last talked to me on March 9th. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Thats what Women have reduced themselves to. Went on holiday the week after on my own as needed the space . You asked me to delete your number, you wanted no contact… So don’t go out of your way to talk to me. And when I finally said yes.. he disappeared. We had a very real and intense, though short-lived affair. I guess to pray and try your hardest not to loose yourself. It became daily communication. Maybe something has actually happened to him?

Either his wife, ex-wife found out again he was on POF and got him to delete his account OR he met someone new and hates the dating site too so went off or its temporarily deleted. Oh god, where was this when I needed it! You’re seeing a guy for a little while, it could be weeks or maybe months. If this wasn’t all that serious, I wouldn’t care as much as I do and I wouldn’t have invited him into my house and meet my daughter. Yes, he spends the same amount of time with me as he always has. He touched his head, and said- you live in here, and he touched his chest over his heart, and said -and you live in here. I was talking with this guy for two weeks and he would text me constantly and call and we would talk on the phone for hours. I sent him a couple of messages later that day.. No response.. A day turned into a week then two weeks and nothing.. then i decided that there was no point me wasting my time thinking of a guy who was not obviously interested in me.

I was just voicing how I was feeling. At first I thought it was just he was busy. he made such an effort to ask me out and to show me and everyone how much he liked me.

He returned home and we continue chatting. Guys who care about you do not blow you off. He didn’t vanish on me but he, out of the blue, sent me an email leaving me with waaaaaay too many questions. Anyway, sorry for you, but it’s better if that happens at the early stages.

If you don’t hear from him in a week, you can definitely let him go…And don’t initiate contact with him at all.

I said I find it hard to believe any woman finding this acceptable and he said listen..trust me Ive been through this before (with his past girlfriends) and they reacted the same way. This guy, being from the same He would get very upset if I posted a new profile pic on FB or put a posting on. I am not going to contact him- I respect his FreeWill.. Why would he change so suddenly? Why???? Yes, it is true. Please save yourself further heartache and move on.

There are other reasons as well, which they may not wish to confront you with. So if it’s not an ex it’s probably some personal issues that were around before you came into the picture (the job might be an indication). I felt a connection and didn’t portray myself in a relationship…I just wanted to take it each day as it comes. but now there is nothing to justify or excuse his actions.

Well thanks for sharing your story. He was the one pursuing me trying to get me to be with him. I had the same exact thing happen to me. The difficulty very often in these cases (which compounds the process) is that most women (myself included at one time) automatically assume he’s vanished because he isn’t or has lost interested, so ‘react’ accordingly, which often only serves in turn to strengthen his original point of view.

Ppl pointed things out to me that I didn’t even realize I was doing. She is as sweet as they come, pretty, and very dependable. Then he asked if it bothers me if he goes out with his coworkers. What can I do for HIM? The first time he and hooked up he dropped off the face of the earth. Shannon you are right.. He has in the past but I could count how many times in my left hand. We are better off giving up on them and not ourselves by chasing after them or pinning over them. I can relate to most of you. Why do you take all this time and effort to get to know and be with someone and then just ghost them. I’m a guy. By the time he does come back around the tables have been turned because now I’m not as interested as I once was because you treated me like an option.

I pretty much begged him to give me closure but he didnt have the balls to do it, so i did. Keep standing up for yourself, if knowing your worth and having standards and boundaries makes us crazy, then I’m the craziest bitch on the block!!! At the end of our workout he sends me a text telling me he noticed I painted my toes.. and wanted to see them! An example is that he still has his profile up, I’m not his girlfriend, and that I needed to lay off on the PDA. I told him that I have feelings too and I feel very hurt I also felt that I was not a priority in that no matter what as long as she is going to have something against what he does and if he responds that way we could never have a healthy relationship because she will always control what he does.

We spent the whole week together; movies, dinner, shopping, museums, gym…we even had classes together and he would always take me home after that. Wish my husband would not have died and left me. I ask him what’s wrong and he says nothing. And he’s always stated that’s a trate he loves in me. Look, I think people need to know (sorry for the caps, but) THINGS AREN’T DEFINABLE. From that text, he hasn’t said anything back and its been about a week. I met this guy online a few months ago. The truth is that passive aggressors wanted to be wanted…they love the attention their childish behaviour gets them. So annoying. Next day I texted him

And people say well there you go that’s the problem. I text him the next day, and get short, limited responses.

It was just so shady and the part that annoys me is why say you’re gonna come pick a girl up if you’re not? And what really bothers me the most is when I did call him on it, to reply back and say no, I shouldn’t assume that we’re done, and he’d answer soon– that’s really immature and selfish. Hope this helps you. We lived long distance but we would tango and oovoo each other every now and then. He sent me a msg weeks later thanking me for the follow.

Whik with him he seemed 100% enamoured and not in a cheesy try hard way. until we agreed to see each other. :(. I just, I don’t see what I did wrong in my relationship to make him leave. However, you need to think very very deeply if this is what you want. You shouldn't have to tell him to call you! Although I insisted –our conversations were casual and playful and nothing serious cas we had talked about things over the phone . I’m sure of what I want. His texting became less frequent and when I started another attempt and made a suggestion for a meeting, he answered, “I’m not sure about that weekend, probably my friend and I are planning to do something”. If he disappears, it’s because he isn’t the right guy for you. I know for me, going a week without even a response would upset me. I was speechless to hear that. I wish he hadn’t initiated all of the things/situations which indicate some sort of seriousness or interest (meeting a child, celebrating a birthday). Is this because of me being a little bit cold (but I have reasons because I consider it disrespect when smn says I am going to sleep now) or what? The Author is correct. Because of this I had to struggle to find a friend to do a name change with and take his place. But the key here, is to remain strong and not contact him. The next day he sends me a message saying he didn’t think it was going to work long term. Wouldn’t it be so much easier if everyone just honestly said how they felt instead of leaving the other person hanging.

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