When a woman is nice to a viewer, it can more often get misinterpreted as romantic interest or availability, which viewers claim leads to more donations. /r/TheBluePill is a satire of /r/TheRedPill and the strategies discussed on that particular sub. But others fear that being too open could betray the trust of people they care about. There could be any number of reasons, perhaps they did not even know it existed. Many streamers described different levels of comfort regarding what they share on stream. “People that are going to creep will creep regardless of your relationship status, I’ve found.” Endless Skye told The Verge that while most of her viewers are respectful, she generally doesn’t talk about her relationship status on Twitch because she doesn’t consider it “relevant” to her content. She described it as a ‘damned if you do, damned if you don’t’ situation. I was the quintessential middle school nice guy and became increasingly frustrated by my lack of success with girls and lack of popularity. But from snippets of the book that I have read, it's basic Psychology 101. Based on conversations with dozens of streamers, women in particular often struggle with how to present their romantic availability to viewers who expect a more intimate relationship than they would from Hollywood personalities. You have to admit Dany ruling China would be infinitely more interesting than Dany ruling Mereen, no? “That helped me, knowing that I wasn’t the only one fighting a small amount [of people] in society with hate in their soul,” she says. Feminine wiles are a woman’s power. Audience obsession over the romantic lives of celebrities spans across popular media, whether there’s gossip about Drake’s latest fling or forensic investigations of the latest Taylor Swift album for evidence of new flames. One streamer I spoke to, Button Mash Vixen, says she is forthcoming about her sexuality and relationships on Twitch because she hopes that it will help her LGBT+ fans find a safe space to talk about their identities. That way, she reasoned, she wouldn’t have to explain her ex’s sudden disappearance from the stream. Historically, however, the biggest and most successful streamers on Twitch are men, not women — so statistically speaking, men are the most likely recipients of donations even as women like Amouranth amass donations in the thousands. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. While Button Mash Vixen doesn’t think that a streamer is obligated to tell people about their relationship status, she has experienced the occasional viewer who mistakes her frankness for romantic availability. Will Russia make it out of this alive?? I wouldn’t mind to have sexy karate done on me by Charlize Theron in atomic blonde while she is doing boob touching with Sophia boutella. He explains how a lot of the anxiety and insecurity driving the co-dependent behaviour, leading to the manipulative behaviour (covert contracts etc.) Because then we'd be reading a Chinese version of asoiaf instead of a European style story. For the people that grow feelings for a streamer, there are some that don’t have the courage to express their feelings, or others that have this impression that our kindness, humor, etc is us sharing feelings back.”. I think this is the first time a (country)ball has been directly affected by the scruffy paint border effect! The same feminists who defend conformance to femininity and romantic feelings and crushes in other female characters claim that Dany is a slut who uses her feminine wiles to seduce men and that she’s only earned her power because men fall in love with her. We know Valyrians love gold. Add to Favorites. “New male viewers will join the stream, see my info section where it states, ‘Relationship Status: Happily Married”, and leave after making a comment like, ‘Oh, she’s married. As usual, a wonderful episode of (your) drama. The fantasy this relationship ambiguity affords is effective, but it has also built up a type of celebrity fandom that feels entitled to an entertainer. The guys whose "niceness" has an ulterior motive, the guys who are covertly manipulative, guys who have co-dependency issues, low self-esteem, self-sabotaging behaviors, lack of confidence, unhealthy approval-seeking, people-pleasing behaviors, etc. Typo in season 1. “The Witches of Eastwick” is a 1987 dark, funny camp classic, directed by George Miller and loosely based on John Updike’s novel of the same name. What does 'your typical middle school nice guy' even mean? 21.7k members in the NewGreentexts community. Cookies help us deliver our Services. Yi Ti was the Golden Empire after all and sort of the predecessor state of Valyria in terms of technological advancement, secrets lost to history. It is a story as old as time: here is a woman, once again using her feminine wiles to trick men, and the men, fools that they are, can’t help but fall for it. More posts from the TheBluePill community. Appearing sexually available is particularly important for some music idols abroad, who sometimes have contracts that do not allow them to date anyone for the sake of the fans. By choosing I Accept, you consent to our use of cookies and other tracking technologies. I hid it out of fear afterwards of pushing potential viewers away after that encounter.”, Nowadays, Richey is more upfront about her marriage, and simply bans jerks who go too far in her Twitch chat. When a man on Twitch is nice to a viewer, that’s typically that. It makes it easier to connect with them on a personal level.”. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Wiggly mouse-drawn comics where balls represent different countries. Mind you, for a culture that was supposed to be cautious around Gold, they sure did commandeer/mine a lot of it in their conquests. A ‘damned if you do, damned if you don’t’ situation. She called 'kickass women trope' where women beat shit out of men a weird concept as if it's totally new concept. The dragonriders preferred to stay in Valyria and fight proxywars like they did with the Rhoynar. Since the video has been released, Amourath says there’s been some fallout. I'm happy to say that my moment of catharsis and reevaluation at 18 has paid off really well as I am currently engaged to the girl from my story and heading off to grad school next year. You won't get just fictional characters. And clearly thinks that all men are victims nowadays and that feminism is eeevil. “Romantic relationships are a huge part of life and I’ve always wanted to introduce boyfriends to my community the same way I’d introduce a new partner to a group of friends,” says Twitch partner Meghan Kaylee. Recently, Twitch’s biggest broadcaster, Ninja, revealed that he does not play Fortnite with women because he’s afraid that fans will take a small interaction out of context and start rumors about them dating. Moral of the story, NMMNG and similar literature has a lot of good points about not being a complete doormat and allowing yourself some outlets for masculine self expression if you feel so inclined; however, TRP fails to see the nuance in these theories in a very similar fashion to how the misinterpret Machiavelli's "The Prince". I'm pretty sure that my story is really common among recovering "nice guys" so I'm going to share my thoughts on it. To learn more or opt-out, read our Cookie Policy. Remember, Dragons are tactical nukes. One self-care Twitch streamer I spoke to, Jessica Richey, told me that she initially hid her relationship because seasoned casters advised her to do so, and because early fan interactions scared her. You all can use your feminine wiles and witchy powers to control men and society!! Press J to jump to the feed. He is here to tell his audience about a transgression by a Twitch personality who, in his estimation, is taking advantage of her audience. “You have a lot more people trying to turn it into a dating site. In my opinion its a descriptive term for fictional male characters that look feminine. I think a lot of people can benifit from it, as a lot of us can be people pleasers and get fucked over. Wiggly mouse-drawn comics where balls represent different countries. The stranger turns out to be Shinohara Yuki, an old crush and work colleague of Kumiko's who quit 3 years earlier because of an incurable illness, and all he wants is to confess to Kumiko before he dies. Not saying that guys need this book, but if it helps some come to see that the issues are theirs and not everybody else's by helping them to see where they've got it all wrong - great. Guest. We already have this within our core. After much self reflection, I realized that my personality had done a complete 180. Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it. Advertisement. Much like women in service roles who have to suffer the advances of men who mistake work hospitality for romantic interest, the relationship between viewer and women streamers can quickly become more personal for a viewer than the broadcaster intends. How do you feel he feels at understanding psychology? live streamers like Ice Poseidon have even let viewers dictate who they’re romantically involved with. Info. The prophecy stated that Valyria would be destroyed by the gold of Casterly Rock, perhaps they misinterpreted this as destroyed by Gold?

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